Title: The Hole in Our Holiness: Filling the Gap between Gospel Passion and the Pursuit of Godliness
Author: Kevin DeYoung
Major Themes: Christian Living, Spiritual Growth, Inspirational
Synopsis: Holiness is one of the most-talked about topics in the Bible, and DeYoung’s goal is to show us how it’s just as applicable now as it was back in Jesus’ day.
One Sunday morning, I grabbed The Hole in Our Holiness as we headed out the door, intending to get a little reading in on our half-hour drive to church. One of my brothers picked it up before I did, flipped to the middle of the book, and started reading chapter six. I didn’t bother to try to get it back from him, just watched him as he was engrossed in reading. Just before we got to church, I asked him, “So…do you think it’s a good book?”
“Oh, it’s great!” he replied, “it’s just like reading a sermon!” He then went on to ask if I could find an audio version for him, because he has more time to listen than read.
I thought his response was hilarious—and a fairly good summary of this book!
Publisher’s description:
What does it mean to be holy? Why should we care? And how can we change?
The hole in our holiness is that we don’t care much about holiness. Or, at the very least, we don’t understand it.
This is a book for those of us who are ready to take holiness seriously, ready to be more like Jesus, ready to live in light of the grace that produces godliness. This is a book about God’s power to help us grow in personal holiness and to enjoy the process of transformation.
My thoughts:
Personally, I found The Hole in Our Holiness harder to read than some of the Christian living books I’ve read lately. It’s a much more difficult subject, for one thing—it’s pretty sobering to realize, all over again, how often I miss the mark in my Christian walk!—but this also feels a bit more technical than some works I’ve read. I wouldn’t put it on the same level as, say, Sinclair Ferguson, but it did take a bit more thought than some books I’ve read.
Don’t let the slightly more technical nature of this book be off-putting, though. Where I expected this book to carry some condemnation or a “boot up the pants” sort of attitude, DeYoung outdoes himself in an effort to be encouraging and make holiness seem like a possible, actionable goal, rather than some airy-fairy thing for super-Christians.
There were two things I especially appreciated about this book:
First, DeYoung finally gave me language for the tension between faith and works that I’ve been trying to explain to myself for years. Somehow, he managed to do it without being legalistic or too grace-focused, and I appreciated that.
Secondly, he spent an entire chapter discussing sexual sin. Using his own dating experience, he was able to explain physical purity before marriage in a way I’ve never seen before—and in the most concise, memorable way possible. My parents were heavily influenced by the “Purity Culture” of the 90s, and when it came to my dating relationships, they set up some rules to try to protect my boyfriend and me. I appreciated the heart behind those rules, but struggled to know how much of it was Biblical and how much was hangover from the hype when they were courting. The way DeYoung talked about it here, though, made a lot of sense…and instead of giving a bunch of dos and don’ts, he quoted 1 Tim. 5:2, and basically made the argument that if you wouldn’t make out with your brother, sister, a stranger, or a friend, why would it be okay to do that with someone you’re dating, who you may or may not end up marrying?
This book gave me a lot of food for thought, and I’m grateful to have had the chance to read it. I haven’t read any books on holiness (aside from the Bible) before this, but it’s definitely a topic I’d be more interested in pursuing in the future. In my opinion, The Hole in Our Holiness is a book all Christians should read, if nothing else but to push us all on to more godliness in Christ.
WARNING: Chapter 7 mentions infant baptism as normal and legitimate (the author is Reformed and occasionally quotes Calvin).
Age levels:
Reading Independently—Ages 15 and Above, Adults
Links to buy this book:
Amazon: Paperback | Kindle | Hardcover | Audible Audiobook (unabridged)
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